Happy New Year, welcome to 2012!
I really like to write year-end blog-posts, because it’s a great opportunity for me to look back and see how blessed I have been in the past year, and also to recount & relive some of the wonderful experiences.
It is easy to look back and see the regrets and bad experiences, but I like to see them with a God-lens, in that each experience (good or bad when it happened) serves to build me into the man God wants me to. Sometimes, an experience says “ yes, this is exactly how you should be acting/feeling”, other times “that was a bad decision, learn from it”.
2011 has been yet another landmark year for me. It’s almost like a bad record, going over and over again, but as I think back, each and every of my last 5 years have been remarkable, and I have only God to thank for such wonderful blessings.
Jan – My dear wife reached her big 3-0 milestone. I organised a “staycation” for us to spend some couple time (since we’re living in my mother’s place in a room with the boys). It was also going to be the 1st time we spend a night away from the boys, and would be a test-run for future vacations. We enjoyed a very nice dinner at a fine Japanese restaurant (with discounts courtesy of my AmEx card – yay!), and a long conversations on how our Singapore life would be. Dreams and aspirations, a good way to start the year.
Feb – Chinese New Year. It was Ming’s 1st CNY celebration in Singapore & Malaysia. The extended family was so happy to finally see our whole family. The boys managed to charm their way into the hearts of many…
Mar – Laine and I went took an overnight trip to the Indonesian island of Batam (a popular playground of Singaporeans) and left the boys to my mum again. It was Laine’s 1st ever visit to Batam. Whilst the resort we stayed in was beautiful, what we saw and experienced outside was not particularly nice. We couldn’t figure out why shopping there was popular, as the main shopping mall didn’t have much variety, and most shops were selling fake brands. Or, perhaps that was why it was popular?
Apr – After a season of tarrying, I finally put my efforts where the talk has been, and started my Enjoywine.sg Twitter account to start my “Singapore Online Wine Forum”. A self-made website followed soon. I’m hoping this side venture will be successful.
Jun – If I remember correctly, this was our 1st OCF wedding attendance in Malaysia, as Laine and I made (another kid-less) overnight trip, this time to KL. We celebrated the union of D & A Tan, and had a good time catching up with old friends.
Aug – Believe it or not, I have never been to Pulau Ubin. Finally, I got a chance to do my 1st Ubin visit, with a group of visiting ex-OCFers from Malaysia. We brought the boys along too. We had fun cycling, in a group, to a natural reserve. It was a tiring but fun day out, and more importantly, another 1st ticked off on our list!
Sep – #…I can see clearly now, the specs are gone…# …that’s right, no more spectacles for this man. As recorded here, I went through an ICL procedure, and now am enjoying life unencumbered by glasses.
Oct – Laine and I have continuously been blessed by her parents in our marriage and in setting up our family. This time, the blessing came in a fun, relaxing form: a trip to Phuket with Laine’s family. It was our 1st trip to this nice tourist destination, and we spent quality time enjoying one another’s company. Accommodation was paid for, and I needed to do was to provide some wines, which I gladly did. Another 1st, another fun time! Then in late October, Laine and I (sans kids again!) went for a 3D2N cruise, as my birthday celebration. The cruise itself was nothing much to shout about, but was definitely a relaxing break for us both. And, it was Laine’s 1st ever cruise vacation too!
Nov – Finally, our 1st HDB flat! It was a long time coming, but as we persevered and prayed, God opened the door, and we got it. As we had sold our property in Adelaide less than 2 years ago, we were not allowed to use the government’s concessionary loan. With encouragement from some parties, we appealed for a waiver of the particular clause, and after 3 rejections and 3 appeals, we finally got the waiver, and proceeded to search, find and purchase our 1st HDB flat. The necessary procedures were completed in November, and we’re not proud owners of our own place in Singapore! However, there’s some work to be done to the flat, and we’ll only move in late Feb 2012 onwards.
Dec – Our 1st family Christmas celebration in Singapore. As I came from a non-Christian family, I grew up not celebrating Christmas, and whenever we visited from Adelaide around Christmas time, we would be in Klang for it, as there would be celebrations and parties there. This year, we decided to have a small, symbolic Christmas celebration in Singapore with my family. It was a simple affair, but a good one. The boys, in particular, loved it as they got so many presents!
Now, as we enter 2012, our family are in Klang with Laine’s family to spend time with them, and to welcome in the new year.
Wishing you an eventful and happy 2012 ahead!
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